Focus areas for individuals & partnerships

  • Portland therapist offering attachment-based therapy for adults

    Attachment patterns & relational wounds

    The way we connect to others is shaped by the earliest bonds we experienced — or didn’t. Whether you're anxiously seeking closeness, shutting down when things get hard, or stuck in a push-pull dynamic, I help you trace those patterns back to their roots. Together, we untangle the protective strategies you've developed in response to past pain, and create new pathways toward secure, connected, and nourishing relationships

  • Conflict, communication & emotional safety

    Many couples and individuals feel stuck in repeating cycles — the same arguments, the same shutdowns, the same hurt. These patterns are often fueled by unspoken fears and unmet emotional needs. Through emotionally focused, attachment-based work, I support you in learning how to communicate from a place of honesty and vulnerability rather than reactivity or defense. The goal isn’t just better communication — it’s cultivating emotional safety, repair, and trust.

  • Sexuality, desire & erotic wholeness

    Sexuality is more than a behavior — it’s a language, a form of expression, and a reflection of how you feel in your body and relationships. Many of us have been disconnected from our erotic selves through trauma, shame, religious conditioning, or performance-based narratives. I offer a space to explore your relationship to pleasure, desire, identity, and intimacy with gentleness and curiosity. This is not about fixing what’s wrong — it’s about returning to your body, voice, and vitality.

  • Couples therapy for polyamorous relationships – Oregon based

    Relationship Structures & Intimacy

    Therapy for those reimagining what connection, commitment, and intimacy can look like.

    The stories we inherit about relationships are often rigid and binary—you're either single or partnered, loyal or unfaithful, traditional or transgressive. But most people live somewhere in between, trying to make sense of desire, boundaries, autonomy, and belonging in a world that doesn’t offer much guidance.

    Whether you’re navigating monogamy, open relationships, polyamory, kink, or something evolving and undefined, my work is about helping you explore and create a relationship structure that feels authentic, attuned, and alive—not performative or prescriptive.

  • Family of origin work & intergenerational healing

    You are not just carrying your own story — you carry the stories, roles, and expectations of those who came before you. Together, we examine your family system with compassion and clarity. We explore inherited dynamics, core wounds, and the unconscious contracts you may still be living by. Through this work, you can begin to step out of survival roles and rewrite the legacy you carry — offering yourself the kind of care and freedom your lineage may never have known.

  • Therapy for grief, trauma, and spiritual deconstruction

    Grief & loss

    Grief is not a problem to solve — it’s a process to move through with care and presence. Whether you're grieving a death, a relationship, a dream, or a former version of yourself, I offer a compassionate space to honor your pain and allow it to transform you. I also work with clients navigating major life transitions — such as parenthood, relocation, aging, identity shifts, or illness — helping them ground, reflect, and reorient during seasons of change.

  • Neurodivergence, sensory awareness & self-acceptance

    Living in a world that wasn’t built for your brain can create deep confusion, shame, and emotional exhaustion. Whether you identify with ADHD, autism, HSP, AuDHD, or are still exploring what fits, I offer a space to process your experiences, build self-understanding, and identify what actually works for you. This is not about masking — it’s about integrating your neurodivergent identity in a way that honors your needs, supports your nervous system, and expands your self-trust.

  • Identity Deconstruction & Reclamation

    Leaving behind a belief system — or questioning the one you inherited — can feel like losing a part of yourself. I support clients in unpacking religious trauma, purity culture, spiritual abuse, and identity loss. Together, we create space to grieve, untangle, and reimagine who you are without the structures that once defined you. This is sacred work — a reclamation of voice, power, purpose, and values that are truly your own.

  • Self-discovery & archetypal insight

    Beneath the surface of daily life lives a deeper self — a constellation of inner figures, desires, and patterns waiting to be known. I help clients explore their internal world using frameworks like the Enneagram, Jungian archetypes, parts work (IFS inspired), astrology, tarot, and dreamwork. These symbolic tools don’t box you in — they illuminate your complexity and provide mirrors for growth, healing, and integration. If you feel like parts of yourself are in conflict or you’re longing for more self-alignment, this work helps bridge the inner gaps and return you to your essence.

  • Life Transitions & Rites of Passage

    Across our lives, there are seasons that invite us to pause, reflect, and step into a new chapter—sometimes with excitement, sometimes with grief, often with both. These thresholds can look like turning 30, 40, or 60; getting married or divorced; becoming a parent; launching or closing a business; retiring; or finding your “second mountain” after a career change.
    I support clients in navigating these passages with intention and care, honoring the endings that must be acknowledged and the beginnings that are just taking shape. Together, we’ll create space to process what you’re leaving behind, clarify what you’re moving toward, and mark the transition in a way that feels meaningful to you—so you can step forward rooted, clear, and open to what’s next.

Together, we might explore...

  • Generational & Attachment Trauma

    Heal inherited relational wounds, fostering secure and meaningful connections with yourself and others.

  • Identity Deconstruction & Reconstruction

    Unpack inherited identities and intentionally rebuild your authentic self—including sexuality, spirituality, gender, relationships, and core values.

  • Relationship Paradigm Continuum: Monogamy to Ethical Non-Monogamy

    Support intentional and authentic relationships across the spectrum—monogamous, non-monogamous, or uniquely designed partnerships.

  • Women’s Empowerment & Autonomy

    Rediscover your authentic voice, pleasure, bodily autonomy, and personal boundaries, reclaiming your full self-expression.

  • Men’s Emotional Healing & Authenticity

    Transform harmful patriarchal conditioning, cultivating emotional freedom, relational intimacy, and authentic self-worth.

  • Internalized Oppression & Cultural Conditioning

    Unlearn harmful societal messages around race, gender, sexuality, and identity, reclaiming personal authenticity and intersectional empowerment.

  • Capitalist Conditioning & Burnout

    Shift from productivity-driven worth toward sustainable, emotionally nourishing living, redefining success and fulfillment beyond material measures.

  • Stigma & Misunderstanding of Mental Health & Addiction

    Compassionately acknowledge and address the family and systemic impacts of addiction and mental health struggles, providing relational and emotional support to those affected.

    While I do not specialize in treating active addiction or substance use disorders directly, I actively promote compassionate, trauma-informed perspectives and can help connect you with specialized care if needed.