12 Relationship Lessons from the Gottmans
Discover what 40 years of Gottman research reveals about lasting love. Learn about the Four Horsemen, perpetual problems, repair, and why 69% of conflicts never resolve.
When Trauma Shows Up in Relationships (and How to Begin Healing It)
Trauma doesn’t just live in the past — it shapes how we connect, trust, and love in the present.
This post explores how trauma shows up in relationships and offers gentle ways to begin healing together.
How to Stop the Pursue Withdraw Cycle in Your Relationship
Understand why one partner chases and the other shuts down, what drives the pursue–withdraw cycle, and how to reconnect with empathy and emotional safety.
The Intimacy Paradox: Why Closeness Requires Distance
Most of us think love means becoming one. But real intimacy requires something harder: staying connected while remaining yourself. Here's how differentiation changes everything about the way we love.
The Quiet Signs Your Relationship Needs Help
Something feels off. Maybe you feel more like roommates than lovers, or you’ve lost touch with your own aliveness. Couples therapy can help you understand what’s changing and bring curiosity, closeness, and spark back to your relationship.